After You Say Sorry Ukulele chords by Rachel Lark

The time to talk about your feelings was last week
D
Not now while I′m trying to speak
     Em
It's not that they don′t matter
                                     C  D
But they don't really matter in this mo-ment
G
The time to talk about your feelings is later
D
Maybe after you've made me feel better
Em
Which we can′t do
            C                  D
While we′re talking about you, talking about you
Em
I'm not proposing legislation that you can′t talk
          Am
In fact I think you should with someone on the clock
C                                                 D
You've got time to work out your thoughts without me, without me
G

After you say sorry we can talk about you
D
Your childhood and what you′ve been through
Em
How it feels to hear you made me sad
C
Wow that sounds hard you poor little lad
G
After you say sorry we can talk about how
D
It affected your sense of self
Em
To have to grapple with the harm you caused
C
After you say sorry I'll grab the gauze
G
Oh you poor little thing
D                  Em
You sentimental being
                        C                    D
I′m so touched that you trusted me with your half formed feelings
G                       D
Oh you poor little thing
                     Em
And what stellar timing
                    C          D                   G
You're a rock til I wanna talk not about you about me



The time to talk about your feelings is always
D
When you're being asked to change your ways
Em
Maybe your resistance to change
                C                          D
Is the dominant player in this challenging phase

The time to talk about your feelings is never
D
When you′re struggling on your own never
Em
You keep it locked up like an arsenal
     C                          D
That you can deploy when you′re vulnerable
Em
I'm not proposing legislation that you can′t talk
A
In fact I think you should with someone on the clock
C                                         D
You've got time to work out your thoughts without me, without me
G
After you say sorry we can talk about you
D
Your childhood and what you′ve been through
Em
How it feels to hear you made me sad
C
Wow that sounds hard you poor little lad
G
After you say sorry we can talk about how
D
It affected your sense of self
Em
To have to grapple with the harm you caused
C
After you say sorry I'll grab the gauze
G
Oh you poor little thing
D
You sentimental being
Em                            C                D
I′m so touched that you trusted me with your half formed feelings
G
Oh and how refreshing to see
D                                  Em
You be a typical man dodging intimacy
                C                        D
From remarkable women who have places to be

G D Em C

                                      E
After you say sorry we can talk about where

I touched your heart and it made you scared
F#
Why you don't feel deserving of love
Dm
What old patterns this reminds you of
A
After you say sorry we can do the work
E
Of helping you name and then unlearn

What messed up shit your parents did

To make you act like a fucking dick


A
After you say sorry
E
After you say sorry
F#m
After you say sorry
D
That's when the good shit starts
A
After you say sorry
E
After you say sorry
F#m
After you say sorry
D                      A
Then We can talk about you